Who is Rev. Whittney-Marie?
"You know those inherently good people - you can’t really explain it - but you just know that you instantly love them? Like your favorite pair of jeans or sweatshirt - the one you’ll always reach for because it brings you comfort and peace? She is THAT person."
M & J
Villa Loriana, San Luis Obispo, CA
Fun Facts!
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Roller Derby is my jam! (Pun intended for the derby lovers out there!) I’m an Official, all I need is a whistle..and my clipboard : )
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I collect passport stamps, so I’m always ready to travel! #DestinationWedding anyone?
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Chaplain, I hold space well!
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Chess, please! Rook no further, I’m your gal!
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I love riding motorcycles - I'm full-throttle!
Highlights!
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Officiated my first wedding in 2016 for my Sorority Sister (OO-OOP to the Sorors)
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Started Rev. I, do Officiating February 2020
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Interviewed Former Secretary of State, Hillary Clinton about love and marriage for her AppleTV+ GUTSY DocuSeries (Episode 4 "Rebel Hearts")
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Walked the "Gutsy" blue carpet in NYC with my plus 1: my mom!
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Officiated nearly 150 weddings and counting...
A Letter from Me to You!
Hey Love,
I’m Rev. Whittney-Marie, and I’m here for you.
Not just as an officiant, but as someone who holds space for your story, your joy, and your love. I’ve been the Black bride searching for someone who truly understands. Someone who sees us, loves us, and celebrates our magic without hesitation. I know what it feels like to need a hug that says, “I see you. I’m here. I’ve got you.” That’s why I do this—for us, by us.
As an ordained minister and storyteller, I have had the privilege of walking alongside couples of all faiths, traditions, and identities, but there is something sacred about #blacklove. I specialize in crafting customized ceremonies that honor the beauty, strength, and vibrancy of Black women and the people who love us. Whether you’re marrying your high-school sweetheart, stepping into a same-gender-loving union, or creating your own unique tradition, I’m here to ensure your ceremony feels like home—warm, authentic, and filled with love.
I don’t just officiate weddings; I create experiences. I craft moments that wrap you in care, elevate your love story, and make your guests feel like witnesses to something extraordinary. My ceremonies are full of flair, finesse, and a deep understanding of what it means to center Black joy. Because when you walk down that aisle, you deserve to feel seen, celebrated, and completely at ease.
It would be my honor to hold you and your love story. Let’s curate a masterpiece together—a ceremony that is as radiant and unforgettable as you are.
Signed, Rev. Whittney-Marie
Featured
Rev. Whittney-Marie is featured in the eight-part docuseries hosted by Hillary Clinton and Chelsea Clinton.
Watch as Rev. Whittney-Marie dives into conversation around what does it mean to be "Gutsy" at the intersections of love and marriage. This mother-daughter duo takes viewers on an unforgettable journey with some of the world's boldest and bravest women inspiring us to be more gutsy, including Rev. Whittney-Marie!
Also featured in theknot.com article...
"Rev. [Whittney-Marie] asks her clients this inclusive question (What's your God language, if any?) in consultations so she can get an understanding of what her clients are looking for her to do. "I'm not asking you, 'Oh, do you believe in Jesus?' or 'Oh, what text do you want from the Torah or the Quran?' That's not what I'm asking. I'm asking, 'Do you have a relationship with a higher power that you want to include in your ceremony?'" Rev. [Whittney-Marie] explains."
What an honor
to be acknowledged by my peers and clients alike!
The International Association
of Professional Wedding Officiants
The International Association of Professional Wedding Officiants (IAPWO) is a professional membership organization dedicated to the promotion and advancement of professional officiants and celebrants worldwide. With a strong focus on professional standards, industry outreach, and education, IAPWO operates as the leading voice for professional wedding officiants and celebrants both inside and outside the special events industry.
Mission Statement
Our mission is:
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To promote professional and ethical standards for wedding officiants and celebrants.
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To increase awareness, recognition, and respect for professional officiants and celebrants worldwide.
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To provide benefits, educational content, professional resources, and entrepreneurial knowledge to our members.
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To establish a positive, professional, inclusive community for officiants and celebrants through networking, idea sharing, and events.